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Agree with both of u.
But to love Allah first we have to know Him n when u know Him u automatically fall in love with Him n then that love makes u obey Him. At the same time u are afraid of His wrath… and at the same time u also have HOPE of His mercy. So I’d add hope too … I once read somewhere that a believer’s heart is in these three conditions at the same time. Love, Hope n Fear of none other but Allah SWT <3
The heart of a believer is like a bird, love at his head n his two wings are hope n fear.
Salam
Aap logon k chotay bare kam kar do sirf Allah ki Raza k liye … kuch na bui kar sako to hupsen iqhlak se pais aao. Salam karo, hal ikhwal pocho, chai pani ka pocho, etc.
ache kam ki taraf unko dawata do.
Adam AS pori insaniyat k baap hain. Ibraheem AS isliye hamare baap hain k unke baad Humare Nabi SAW Taq sab Ibraheem AS ki lineage se hein. Means Prophet Mohammad SAW was from Ibraheem AS’s family.
Walaiakum Salam
I think one is how a true believer is like or should be like n the hadith u quoted is a prediction if I understood it right.
The Ups n Downs according to my understanding happen when we get caught into something wrong n don’t do enough work to stay away from it or we get so much influence that we end up doing wrong. If we get a test from Allah or get shaitan’s whispers to misguide us we should first sit down n ask ourselves questions to figure out where we are heading towards I mean just get the realization first n then start working to not fall in the track of Shaitan. When u feel ur Imaan is getting lower u must know what keeps u on track so do more of it keep urself in the company of good people. Tell urself how short life is n u don’t wanna end up in Hell think about death how it can come suddenly … May Allah SWT help u dear n Jazakillah Khair I just got an answer of an issue I myself was going trough while I am typing u a reply … 🙂
Its only the first step which is hard n then Allah SWT makes ways out for u. Whenever u get stuck somewhere n don’t know what to do just secretly call Allah SWT n ask Him for help. I swear He would send u a solution and I am speaking from experience trust me :'( I am a greatest sinner yet He is so merciful to me I can’t explain …
Whenever u get hurt by someone’s comments or remarks on ur covering stay silent n patient n try to put urself in that person’s shoe… he might not have much knowledge or might just be ignorant because of some bad experience n sometimes people feel pressure even if we are practicing n not asking them to do so they feel a certain level of pressure so try to just explain it to urself, make excuses for them n pray for urself n them also. This would make it easier to not give a negative reaction … n u know what Allah would allow u to have the same people be ur friends or they would just loose their interest in mocking u INSHALLAH.
N the most important thing is dua trust me can’t tell u how important dua is. Cry infant of Allah n ask Him for help not only He would give u tranquility but would also help u out …
Salam sis
If the husband divorced the sis in private he should make things easy for both of them now n accept that he did. Otherwise he is sinning. The sister is not doing any ZID she is right n if a couple gets divorced the family even the people who were in the marriage should not become enemies now. Try to tell ur family what Islam says in such matters … families don’t keep their bound because of marriages and can’t break it when a marriage didn’t work.
I hope the family understands n pray that everything goes well for the couple n the family. Allahuma Ameen
Salam
Kuch ilm saloon k nazdeek Niqab Farz hai even hands n feet should be covered n eyes should be covered with net … others say Niqab is not fardh. I personally think its the level of taqwa which makes u cover accordingly. The more u feel closer to Allah SWT the more u want to obey Him n do more acts of worship etc.
So ask urself what u think how much covering u are comfortable with? Loose fitting n Covering Hair is must n u can do that with Shilwar Kameez, Dupatta or a modest dress even … at some point u would think Khimar n Abaya is better Quran mentioned them too n at some point u might think Niqab is a must for u urself.
This is my personal experience the day I started covering my journey kept having its ups n downs n I felt it was just according to the level of my faith.
I hope u understand what I mean.
Sorry I can’t type in roman Urdu n feel guilty about it cuz my auto corrector keeps changing every word n I have to literally change every single word …
Bilkul I agree with Kashaf n would like to add k dosron ko haque ki rah dikhana bhi shamil hai jese Surah Asr main hai
k Iman lana aur dosron ko haque aur sabr ki talqeen karna aur is raste main aik dosre ki madad karna. yeh hamari duties hain dear. Allah ta’ala hamain samajh aata farmain. AmeenNo no she is talking about the Aayah from the Quran which most people quote to tell the women that men have fazeelat over women but in fact the aayah is only talking about the divorced women in that particular situation …
Dear men n women both have duties n according to their nature Allah has decided what is whose duty n what not. Cuz He is the creator n knows us better. Even if we think we can do men’s tasks n vice versa why don’t we accept Allah#s order as it is.
Don’t say men have more duties than women thats completely wrong. Allah has no where said one is better than other rather He SWT always says in clear words TAQWA is what makes u a better human being weather men or women.
Some people have added so much in this matter (Allah knows best who, how n why) but there is so much ignorance regarding this matter. I believe women today (Liberals) are just rebelling because of men kept doing to women n because the don’t know n understand the message of Islam.
Look at the last Khutbah of our Prophet SAW. I understood it like that … He SAW was our greatest teacher n He knew what difficulties we had n what is going to make us lose here so He SAW said take care of ur women, racism n soad are two other topics He spoke about.
N SubhanAllah look at the Umma today we are fallen into these 3 matters the most. Racism amongst Arabs n non Arab even between people of same country n culture, kala gora stuff … exactly what He warned us from.
Thats just my observation n opinion I could be wrong too n I ask Allah for better understanding …
Walaikum Salam
I think Allah SWT looks at your effort not the result. n He SWT rewards u looking at ur effort even if u fail in the end. So keep trying again n again n if u feel its hard then make due 🙂 Dua is something we underestimate so much but our Prophet SAW said due is our weapon n it can even change Qadar He SAW said make due even if u need salt at home our a shoelace. Means for all great or small matters make Dua dear. May Allah SWT make it easy for u two. Allahuma Ameen
